A coffee, with a good friend.
Me : "Sometimes, I have this naughty fantasies where I am not a conservative Kelantan girl stuck in conservative Kelantan..."
Friend : "Don't. You're just fine the way you are. Seriously. Don't change."
The said friend is a very non-conservative, non-Malay guy, who completely understood what non-conservative girls in non-conservative places are free to do, what opportunities they would have, and with what consequences.
Friend : "Your smart, interesting, conservative-but-non-conservative guy will soon come, don't worry."